I spent some time during the Holidays studying the history of the Holocaust. Why? Well, I had some downtime due to my body not cooperating which required my feet to be elevated. When this happens I like to research various topics while resting. Secondly, something has been really bothering me and I wanted to get some answers for myself. I thought my experience might be typical for some of yours, so I thought I would share it. These are my thoughts and observations from holocaust survivor testimonies and how I think it relates to our current reality.
I have a sister who has demonized me because of my political views. I never noticed it much and always “forgave her” when she was rude. I love her, and we had been very close all our growing up years. I was her sounding board and always encouraged her through her various life trials, no matter what was going on in my personal life. I thought we were good friends.
The change in our relationship began subtly. When I was on FaceBook, many, many, years ago, she refused to “friend” me. I thought that odd, but I ignored it. She had started attending a very “liberal” church, in my opinion. She had become accusatory and critical over the years of everyone whom she thought was “prejudiced” in some form or another, and that included myself and all of my siblings. When our father died, she completely lost it and lashed out at everyone. I forgave her. Grief is a difficult thing for so many. Our father was a Veteran, a very conservative man in Faith and Life, yet generous to a fault. He was beloved by all his children. She brought in a female “pastor” from her church to pray over him before he died, and I wondered what he was thinking. He probably thought the woman was just another friend of my sister, and he would pray with anyone. I thought my sister’s grief had driven her mad so I excused her.
The straw that broke the camel’s back in our relationship was on January 6th, 2021 when the Capitol Complex experienced chaos, both real and manufactured. She texted me and my other family members individually, and if you could scream on text messaging she did that. Somehow any of us who had voted for Trump (the majority in my family) who lived about 3,000 miles away from D.C., were to blame for that mess. I was so stunned that I couldn’t respond to her. As this past year has progressed, I noticed that she believed everything the government and media dished out and was very pious in her faith but liberal in her lifestyle. She continued to be critical of everyone else. I was very hurt by her behavior, but I’ve now come to terms with the fact that she will not change.
At any rate, I wanted to understand how people could be brainwashed by their government, the media, their church, and other sources. I wanted to understand how people could become so pious and unaware of their own behavior that they would turn on their family members. I felt I needed to understand this strange facet of human behavior so I could emotionally move on in a positive direction. And I also wanted to be acutely aware of the signs that someone would betray their own family members, especially now during the times we are in. It almost boils down to a safety factor for me. So, onto what I learned from the holocaust survivor testimonies while I was resting. I think I watched at least 20 hours of testimony, mostly from women.
Most of the interviewees had very normal, some very nice, middle-class lives prior to the war, but many were the only survivors in their families. Very few of the ones I watched were “very religious”. They described an integrated, assimilated, life in Germany and Poland. A lot of them described growing up in very loving homes and having happy lives. They described celebrating the traditional Jewish holidays, but didn’t necessarily have a “kosher home”. They had friends of all stripes and were shocked that their neighbors and friends rejected them and turned on them. Some got out early, before World War II, as they could see the handwriting on the wall. But, most did not think, according to the testimonies that I watched, that the war would last, and certainly didn’t think they would be targeted like they were.Continue reading“A North American Holocaust? – Part 1, by SaraSue”