(Continued from Part 1.)
Preparations for Daughters
The number one thing that a parent can do for their daughter who wants her to have a great life is to prepare her for marriage. The preparations necessary for a young woman for success in life are extremely different than the preparations for a son or grandson. The easiest way for a young woman to be successful in life is to enter into an excellent marriage. The number one problem is that most parents and grandparents are doing a poor job at preparing daughters and granddaughters for this role because they think it is just going to happen naturally or is to something where planning is not effective. I know how to grow crops and harvests do not randomly happen: they require preparation. If a young woman wants to enjoy an excellent marriage, it takes years of pre-planning. It does not happen overnight!
Historically, fathers would try to get their daughters married because an unmarried woman’s prospects were not usually good. Most young unmarried women without the benefit of a family resources in the form of an inheritance or dowry had a few very negative dead-end choices such as in domestic service. A lot of popular books during this time covered these various themes of marital success and how to achieve it. Unmarried women’s prospects on average are still not that good with a lower than average net worth with never married women often having up to one third less than single never-married men.Continue reading“Preparing Future Generations for an Uncertain Future – Part 2, by Single Farmer”


