(Continued from Part 4.)
Preparations for Sons
After spiritual preparation, the number one thing a parent can do is to prepare their son for life is to teach him how to make and control money. Money and resources create options. Lack of money limits opportunities. I have a collateral or lineal relative in every conflict from the Revolutionary War to the present. If you go back far enough in history, you will find multiple great-grandfathers at a distant generational level. For instance in the time period of the American Civil War, I have multiple grandfathers and collateral relatives who served in the Confederate Army and Navy including at the rank of General and other Flag Officers. I also have a grandfather who sold the plantation and divested his wealth out of the Confederate currency. There are a lot of stories I know from families who were wiped out either in the Civil War or in the Great Depression, so knowing how to control resources are critical for a man to develop.
A lot of people incorrectly say that money does not matter at all. But historically, money has been the single greatest determiner in the ability to marry and reproduce in addition to its fundamental aspect in survival in modern societies. Marriage (and child-rearing) are a very resource-intensive exercise. A single man uses relatively little resources compared to a married man with a wife and children. There is a resource “marriage gap” where education, income, and overall wealth are the best predictors of marriage than any other factor. Almost 90 percent of millionaires and higher-income individuals are married with over three times the marriage rate among those with higher incomes versus lower incomes. Increased education also leads to a higher likelihood of marriage.Continue reading“Preparing Future Generations for an Uncertain Future – Part Five, by Single Farmer”

