(Continued from Part 1. This concludes the article.)
I don’t pop pills to feel better. I rest. I have adjusted my surroundings to work for me. I have no problems turning down social offers if I know I can’t do them. I used to say “No, I can’t” and mumble an excuse, and now I simply say “No thank you!”, with a smile, and not feel the slightest guilt, nor do I have to explain myself to anyone. When the pain feels unbearable, I go into a reclining position and rest for as long as it takes for the pain to subside. You know the old saying, “unless you’ve walked in my moccasins…”. While I wish I was 100% drug free, I still take allergy medicine and OTC naproxen sodium. I carry with me an emergency inhaler should I ever need it.
DISCLAIMER: I do realize there are injuries, illnesses, and disabilities that require pain medications. I, in no way, begrudge anyone, nor do I advocate for withholding, pain medications from people who really need them. Deep, abiding, pain is something I don’t wish on even my enemies. I pray that those of us who can go without will extend grace, kindness, and assistance to those who need our help.
GETTING TO THE RIGHT DOCTORS
There are many illnesses that can be managed by diet, exercise, and environment, however there are some illnesses that absolutely require a traditional medical intervention. In my case, I researched all that I could by reading medical studies, not just articles about medical studies. It took me a long time to do this, but I kept at it until I understood as much as possible about my various bodily failures. I studied my blood test results and followed every detail until I understood what they meant. When I met with my doctors, I had a list of questions and concerns. Some doctors were better than others with their “bedside manners”. I had a particularly horrible experience with one doctor and would leave her office in tears, every time.
I joined a support group of people who had my particular kind of cancer and found the name of an expert who was highly appreciated by her patients. She was a literal lifesaver for me. I finally found an arthritis doctor who specialized in the type of debilitating arthritis I have. I even went to see the “psycho” therapists/psychiatrists that I was recommended to see. I’m sure they have helped people, but they weren’t helpful to me. The doctors always like to rule out “psychosis” when someone is experiencing multiple illnesses, just to make sure you aren’t making anything up! LOL. Actually, they’re there to help you navigate your emotional and intellectual way through serious illness. I didn’t find them helpful, personally. I just wanted answers. Not having answers was more frustrating to me than anything else.Continue reading“Painkillers and TEOTWAWKI – Part 2, by Anonymous”
