It’s a hard thing to watch a parent who is in decline. This may include physical failings, cognitive decline, loss of memory, forgetfulness, disturbed sleep patterns, and bad decisions. The person who once took care of you is simply no longer able to take care of themselves. What responsibilities do you have toward family? In this article, I’m going to relate some thoughts regarding the care of an elderly parent and some considerations for general preparedness planning, not necessarily TEOTWAWKI. This is not intended to be an exhaustive treatment of the subject of hospice, elder care, legal issues, or anything else. It is simply some of the experiences my wife and I have had taking in an elderly parent and some Lessons Learned. As with everything else, Your Mileage May Vary.
Background
Our family moved to the northern Ozarks a bit over forty years ago. My parents purchased a small plot of vacant land. A well was drilled, power brought in, septic dug, and the family homestead established. It was home for a long time as the children grew, graduated, and left. Eventually Dad passed and only Mom remained on the property. Fortunately, none of us had moved terribly far away.
My interest in preparedness began as a child through reading Boy’s Life magazine and Outdoor Life. There seemed to be a monthly article of how someone found themselves lost in the wilderness and in a life-or-death situation. I drifted away from this as I grew up and went off to college. Eventually I joined the reserve forces, had a couple deployments after 9/11. It was after one of these that a neighbor sent a link to SurvivalBlog to me, and this rekindled my interest in preparedness. I didn’t really start working toward goals until a few years ago (following the election of BHO) and retirement from the National Guard. Most of those have been financial and land acquisition. There is a long way to go.Continue reading“Preparing With a Parent in Decline, by C.H. in Kansas”
