Editor’s Introductory Note: This article is an After-Action Report (AAR). At more than 6,400 words, it was long enough to serialize into three parts. But because it is in narrative form, I thought it was best to present it all in one piece.
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In late 2019 into early 2020 I experienced a several month unexpected period of homelessness. This was during the incipient stages of the COVID-19 pandemic situation where there was significant “fog of war.” The severity of the situation was unclear. This was an exceptional learning opportunity that yielded significant operating experience that I am sharing here. I recommend preparing in a way that offers the maximization of options for your future and a flexibility to adapt quickly. It is also critical to have a stable foundation for your life. Had I made different choices this would never have occurred. The errors were mine. I pray for wisdom and discernment these days. I have learned to take people at face value, to identify threats earlier, have faith in myself and God, finally, to take a conservative bias toward risk. As an event is unfolding it is necessary to utilize objective metrics to identify when it is necessary to change course. As I had to do multiple times during this period.
In late December 2019 my living situation evaporated with next to no notice. The day after Christmas I was told via text message by my father that the power would be cut off on a property I was to inherit and had been living in for 3+ years. That day it was -20 F out. I am certain that he was aware of the date and the temperature that day. I had built my house on sand and while the saying is that “blood is thicker than water.” I have found that my family is unreliable and, in my case, hostile. It should be noted that I had recently lost a parent. That loss was seen as an opportunity by a far wealthier branch of the family to push me out of a home I was told I could live in the rest of my life. There were legal options that could have offered more time, and the situation was wrong, but I chose to remove myself from the situation.Continue reading“Unexpected Homelessness: An AAR, by A Grateful Mechanic”
