Multiple relationships equals a community and a community equals resources. This sounds so simplistic but many Preppers do not work on developing relationships which means they do not have a SHTF community. Not having a community means that they are missing out on vital resources they may need during and after a widespread disaster or a societal collapse. I saw this concept in action for myself in the past few weeks.
Making a relationship
Amish buggies and wagons are a common sight on our road. A keen eye will sometimes allow you to get to know the locals versus those who are just passing by. I was out by the road contemplating the possibility of a future project when two Amish gentlemen that I did not recognize, rode by me and entered the business across the road. The shop was closed but it is not uncommon to see people come by after hours. I went inside my house and then noticed the Amish men coming up my driveway in their wagon. I went outside and greeted them. They said they thought I “might have something they could use”. My Amish neighbor knows I have a hardware/sporting goods store in my pole barn. I told him it was okay to tell his family and friends about it. As far as my neighbor knows, I buy stuff at auction, and what I do not need I re-sell. I just do not try very hard to sell it. So, I just thought that the word had gotten around. I asked what they needed and they pointed to my backhoe. The relationship was established.
Notes to Myself
My first thought was that I need to hide my backhoe from street view when not in use. I have a love-hate relationship with my back-hoe. I may only use the backhoe once a year but attaching it to my tractor is a major pain. But like anything else, each time I do it, it gets a little easier. I do love the time and effort it saves me. Hence, I do not advertise my backhoe. The two gentlemen explained they were from New York, in the area helping family and they needed to install a water line and drain pipe and the trench only needed to be about 25 feet long. I knew I would not want to dig a trench like that by hand and I had a lot of empathy for them, so I agreed to dig the trench. They then asked how much it would cost. I told them I was not a professional and had only used the back-hoe a few times since I bought it. I said I did not even have a clue as to what a reasonable price was. They threw out a number and I said that something in that neighborhood would be fine. So I got the location and time and the gentlemen left.
Witnessing a community
I showed up before many of the other Amish who were going to help did. The few that were there showed me where the trench was needed and where the current water line and drain pipe were, that they needed to tap into. I started to work and the ground was rock solid since it has not really rained going on three weeks. The next thing I knew, it was pouring rain. The Amish invited me in out of the rain into the building that they were working on. They brought me out a cup of coffee and we chatted. I came to find out these were relatives of my Amish neighbor. The rain stopped and more Amish showed up, including my neighbor and his wife. I told them I was not a expert with the back-hoe and that I only used it a few times and my neighbor said: “Yeah we know, the paint is still on the bucket”, to which we all laughed.Continue reading“Relationships, Communities, and Resources, by 3AD Scout”
